“And what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Micah 6:8
A simple calling that many of us aspire to practice in all our daily affairs. Micah is ancient, from the Old Testament, 686 B.C., telling us the importance of justice, kindness, and humility.
We may secretly believe we are doing a fine job – or may even boast of our temporal success! The latter instantaneously crashes our spiritual intentions before our vocal cords cease vibrating, before the words form, before sounds from the air on our God given breath escape our mouth, our humility is lost.
If only we had errors of omission to be concerned about perhaps we could get a pass for these transgressions. What about our active permission or even execution of unjust acts, meanness, a simple claim of moral superiority or self-righteous indignation.
We are a long way from Micah’s days and have had generations to lose our sense of spirituality, of universal truths, of a desire to have and maintain a conscious contact with God. So far removed are we as a people that we are numb to micro and macros transgressions we see every day — hunger, poverty, oppression, violence, and the many forms of the seven deadly sins. Even if we were to claim that we are powerless over the society in which we live, we still have our own individual actions which no doubt fail not only God’s standards, but our very own watered down standards, which at the slightest provocation, can be adjusted to meet our sense of our grandiose circumstances. Our afflictions are so high even Job would tremble to be in our shoes. Sometimes I think he actually might be trembling for our human condition these days. All is not lost.
Author Anne Lamont presents a solution for our miserable actions in her book Hallelujah Anyway. As far as I can tell Anne has had plenty of challenges herself (mental health, alcoholism, and trauma) in her life and has come out the other side with a career of multiple successful books.
This book takes a look at the “lingering effects of Trauma and Paralyzing Fear” on people’s ability to live a holy life and maintain a conscious contact with God – or even to maintain a conscious contact with their own sense of self. Mercy and forgiveness are foundational:[i]
Practicing Mercy towards others and towards yourself is the answer she defines for all the broken souls that are seeking peace. Anne Lamott says “Mercy is radical kindness.” This is not a unique concept for excellent health – it has many authors from many different fields promoting its value.
Starting with oneself is almost always a good idea. I know several of my weaknesses can be captured by Thomas Merton’s broad stroke of a pen:
“Knowing at the same time the weakness and imperfection of my own soul fettered by attachments, I will above all pray earnestly and humbly for the grace without which I can never hope to conquer my impatience, irritability, aggressiveness and self-righteous impulses to judge and punish other men.”[ii]
I have not lost these negative traits since reading his book, though I like to believe, I have arrested and entangled their freedom to run rampant without circumspection, constraint, or outright arrest! And what about all the resentments of others past – and those current, that show no restraint or awareness at all of the harms they are committing?
How am I to cope with my own fallibility while also contending with historical “trauma and fear,” current stressors and insecurity, and outright insanity of other people?
It is not just the old man Micah that recommends Mercy. The Bible has many references to a Merciful God.[iii] Understanding the importance of mercy and forgiveness is a lifelong journey and can cover quite a broad terrain of concrete action.[iv] If you prefer a psychological look at Mercy and Forgiveness perhaps “The Enright Process Model of Psychological Forgiveness” can shed some light on the power of Mercy or at least the how to approach Mercy for self and others.[v] Or checkout the International Forgiveness Institute[vi].
I prefer for this writing to stay focused on the spiritual calling to practice Mercy in all our affairs.
“We do not have a God Who is incapable of understanding and sharing our weaknesses. Quite the contrary! Precisely because of His mercy God became one of us: ‘For by His incarnation the Son of God has united Himself in some fashion with every man. He worked with human hands, He thought with a human mind, acted by human choice and loved with a human heart. Born of the Virgin Mary, He has truly been made one of us, like us in all things except sin’. In Jesus, therefore, we are able not only to touch the mercy of God with our hands, but we are inspired to become instruments of His mercy. It is easy to speak of mercy, yet more difficult to become its witness. This is a path that is lifelong and which should not be interrupted. Jesus has said to us that we must be ‘merciful as the Father”. It is a lifelong endeavour.”
Pope Francis: Vigil of Divine Mercy Sunday, April 2, 2016[vii]
And thankfully we are not alone in seeking and providing Mercy:
It is love which takes the first step, which does not depend on human merit but on immense gratuitousness. It is divine solicitude that nothing can impede, not even sin, because it is able to go beyond sin, to overcome evil and forgive it.[viii]
The Holy Spirit
Practicing Mercy while being just, demonstrating kindness, and maintaining humility is a way of life that is difficult to maintain in today’s world. While there are many psychological, physical, and spiritual benefits to living this way that is not why we should live this way.
We should live this way as it is God’s will and to live in accordance with God’s will is right and just. But how do I know what is God’s will? You cannot trust your own sense of providence alone. Too many people are deceived by false shadows of religiosity that are far from holy.
If you are Catholic perhaps some reflection on the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit.[ix] Depending on the immensity of the decision you are facing – having others (spiritual advisors, friends, professionals) maybe a good adjunct to your spiritual journey and practicing discernment.
I would be remiss to not mention Saint Faustina Kowalska, an uneducated Polish nun who, in obedience to her spiritual director, wrote a diary of about 600 pages recording the revelations she received about God’s mercy.[x] I have a preference for non-formulaic prayer and conversation – meditative and/or Lectio Divina. Sometimes the readings of Saints or theologians can spark the spiritual imagination.
Perhaps the best advice I have is pray, strive, and do not take yourself too seriously if you are putting your best self out there. We are imperfect creatures. Trust in something higher!
[i] Hallelujah ANYWAY by Anne Lamott
[iii] 2 Samuel 24:14, Psalm 86:5, Psalm 145:9, Luke 6:36, Ephesians 2:4, Titus 3:5, Hebrews 4:16, 1 Peter 1:3, Matt 9:13, Psalms 51:1-2